Co-authors: Sarah Rot & Chelsea Horton
“I know my relationship is solid…My partner is kind and caring, we have fun together, I have the kind of relationship I’ve always wanted…
…So why don’t I FEEL rock solid?”
Hey, we’re Sarah & Chelsea, the leading ladies of Healing Embodied, and we’ve heard some version of this question thousands of times.
You know you’ve found something worthwhile in your partner.
Your relationship is healthy and overall loving, even if it isn’t perfect.
You and your partner both care about the life you’re building, and want to put in the effort to help your relationship thrive.
But you still notice old patterns creeping in.
Holding boundaries and having difficult conversations makes you feel like you’re going to throw up.
Voicing your needs and desires to your partner still makes you feel defensive, scared, or shut down.
You and your partner have a disagreement or don’t see eye-to-eye, and a voice in your head says “Does this mean we aren’t going to work out?”
Your brain won’t stop taking every single moment of tension, discomfort, and doubt, and making it mean something is horribly wrong with your relationship.
You don’t understand why you do this. You feel so terrible that you can’t stop nitpicking your loving partner. The discomfort is so intense that some days it seems like it would be easier to just throw in the towel on your relationship.
Yeah, we get it. We’ve been there.
And we are here to tell you that the reason you can’t experience your loving, healthy relationship as the rock solid partnership that it is…has NOTHING to do with your partner or your relationship!
We want to help you get super clear about what is really getting in the way of being able to receive and enjoy the love in front of you.