Imagine this.
You’ve just sat down at your dining room table to drink your morning coffee.
You look around at your beautiful home that you and your partner have intentionally curated together over the years.
You look into the kitchen and see your partner pouring their cup of coffee in their favorite mug to come join you. In that moment, it hits you.
You’ve created the stable, loving, peaceful life that you used to only dream about.
You feel overwhelmed with gratitude for your partner and your relationship, even in the simple moments like this.
You say to your partner, “hey, I love this little life we’ve built together. I’m so glad it’s you I get to do this with.”
Your partner smiles back at you with misty eyes, and gently kisses your forehead. “Me, too.”
This peace, love, gratitude, and connection you feel in the relationship is worth more than anything in the world to you. It’s more valuable than any material possessions or career achievements.
And you know that it’s yours to enjoy.
This is Relationship Wealth.
You want to experience this holy-shit-pinch-me love in your relationship, but there is a quiet voice in your head that’s still asking, “what if it all comes crashing down?”
So, you don’t let yourself really receive it, for fear that it will hurt more if it all ends.
You want to feel so obsessed with the beautiful life you and your partner have worked so hard to build together:
- Saturday morning snuggles that lead to hot morning sex instead of reaching for your phone and doom scrolling
- Taking that dream vacation to a new country and having an absolute blast together as you see new sides of your partner that make you fall even more in love
- Seeing your partner helping your child with their art project, and tearing up with gratitude that this is your family
But you don’t let yourself fully experience how good it actually is, because of the fear of what if it could be better and you’re missing something.
You don’t allow yourself to be a playful, sexy vixen in your sex life, because the thought of trying something new feels scary instead of exciting.
You don’t give yourself full permission to get chills-all-over-your-body excited about the future.
Dreaming big together as a couple feels risky.
Your mind throws thoughts at you like, “don’t get too excited, because what if you and your husband get divorce and then you have to sell the house, and then you have all this messy paperwork on your hands.”
You’re ready to clear these old patterns that make you feel like the love you’ve built is fleeting or scarce. You know this couldn’t be further from the truth.
You want Relationship Wealth.
You came from a family where secure, thriving relationships weren’t modeled for you.
Maybe you came from a broken family, where your parents went through a painful divorce.
Or your parents stayed married, but you didn’t see them putting in the effort to have meaningful moments of connection with one another. You rarely heard them say to each other “I love you, I’m so grateful for you”, or laugh and play together like best friends.
The blueprint you were handed about love and relationships was…not great…to say the least.
Or maybe you’ve had toxic or painful relationships in the past. You never knew which version of your ex you were going to wake up to. No matter how hard you tried to please him, nothing ever seemed to be good enough.
These experiences challenged you to your core, and slowly chipped away at your sense of safety and trust in your decisions. Taking the risk of love again afterwards felt impossible.
And yet.
You did it. You created a secure relationship with someone who deeply loves and values you. Who sees you, and accepts all of who you are.
You used to be so unsure if this kind of love was possible…and now you’re living it.
You have already created a relationship full of love, trust, and commitment.
You did something so many other people wouldn’t.
You did what the other people in your family never could.
You rewrote the script, and wrote a new beautiful love story.
You know what you have is incredible, and now you want to EXPERIENCE the fullness of the beautiful life you’ve created.
You want to allow yourself to fully receive the wealth of love that’s right in front of you.
You want the holy-shit-pinch-me-can-life-actually-be-this-good? moments.
Imagine you can finally enjoy the love you always dreamed of having.
This mentorship is for you if:
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Your relationship is everything to you, and you want to finally let yourself enjoy it.
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You know that relationships require intentional effort, self-reflection, and personal responsibility in order to be successful.
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Are ready to bring your body into your healing (you’ve experienced how the mind alone won’t get you there.)
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Are motivated to practice, implement and integrate what you learn in your day-to-day life.
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Are with a partner who is also invested, committed, and willing to do what it takes to create a thriving relationship.
When you tap into Relationship Wealth, you:
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Take on bigger commitments and adventures with your partner, like starting a new business, buying a home, or planning an awesome cross country trip.
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Know that you are not passing on generational trauma to your kids as you model connected, life-giving love to them.
- Stop questioning if you love your partner enough or if they love you enough. You know in your bones that you’re crazy for each other.
Our Signature Process:
Phase 1: Liberation.
You’ll understand why you can’t let your partner’s love in and be able to respond to what’s happening in the present moment, rather than reacting from the past.
Phase 2: Expansion.
You will learn how to expand your capacity to feel more love, joy, connection, and gratitude. You will see just how good you can stand it.
Phase 3: Creation.
You now get to consciously create the kind of relationship you and your partner want. When you know that you and your partner are co-creators of your relationship, the sky is the limit for what you can experience together.
What you learn through this work will impact your relationship for the rest of your lives. It’s a way of relating, being, and engaging with yourself and your partner.
This investment will give you incalculable returns over decades.
What you receive:
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6 months of private, individualized support (2 sessions per month, plus chat support in between sessions to integrate and implement what you’re learning). With this 6 months of individualized support, you have the option to include your partner in some of the sessions, as desired.
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Customized practices after each session to help you take what you learn and turn it into magic in your relationship.
“[Since this work] I give him so much more grace. I appreciate him, and the simple, solid presence he brings to my life. And I tell him. Our communication is getting better, and I am learning how to live in gratitude for what we have rather than fear of what could go wrong or what isn’t working perfectly.” - Sage
“My relationship has taken a huge turn for the better. I was able to share this experience with my partner, which has been amazing. The way I view my relationship now is just so different. I know now that it is my choice to be with him. I choose him because I want to. I can finally be excited about the next steps in our lives together. I feel accepted and loved without inhibitions, an entirely new concept for me.” -Abigail
Our relationship has shifted. We are more open, communicative, there’s more movement forward out of our typical patterns and there’s more ease. It’s almost as if when I switched from processing mentally to processing in my body, I became more present to the relationship., My thoughts became quieter and he could feel the energetic shift. It’s hard to explain exactly what shifted but we both feel it. -Leah
Why Chelsea is THE mentor for you:
Chelsea is the founder and CEO of Healing Embodied with thousands of hours helping others create thriving relationships. She is a Board-Certified Dance/Movement Therapist and Relationship-Focused Somatic Coach. Healing Embodied exists because of her unique love story with her partner of 10+ years, Matt.
“My relationship with Matt was the catalyst for my growth on every level. His love showed me where I was holding back in fear. I used to overthink the relationship, fear the worst-case-scanarios, and worry that one day I would suddenly realize I had made a huge mistake if I committed. By doing my own somatic healing, I learned to trust the love in front of me. Now, it is the norm for me to look over at him and tear up with gratitude for the fact that we get to do life together. Our relationship is full of affection, laughter, and vulnerability. I know that I am the wealthiest woman in the world because of this love I have.”
What clients have said about working with Chelsea:
“It’s only been a few months since Dylan found an article on the internet that made him feel more understood than anything ever had. I can honestly say that as his partner, the Dylan I met and the Dylan I’m growing with now have night and day perspectives when it comes to love and life.
He’s gone from oversharing out of guilt and shame to standing confidently in what he knows to be the truth about his thoughts and only sharing with me what I need to know.
He’s gone from being so physically affected by his thoughts that I feel shut out, to creating an environment in which I feel I can share myself with an open heart on my good days and my bad.
He used to wonder constantly if life was going to take me from him or if he was making the wrong decision and I can feel him growing more and more confident in his ability to choose me every day.
He admits when he’s having an anxious day matter of factly and he knows it will pass. He’s starting to exercise and take care of himself again. He talks to me about the future and I feel the hope and excitement for what’s to come, not fear it won’t happen.
It truly is the most rewarding, deep, beautifully human relationship of my life.” -Emily, spouse of Chelsea’s 1:1 client
“Chelsea is the no-bullshit, badass, empowered mama I never had. She is incredibly compassionate and provides so much support and understanding, but she also isn’t afraid of sometimes smacking you on the head and calling your fear out for what it is. I like that about her, because sometimes that is the only way to step out of it.” - Sage
“My guide in this journey was deeply compassionate and the most knowledgeable relationship anxiety healer one could think of. That wonderful human was Chelsea. She was the first coach ever that was patient with my overactive mind – I was so frantic and deeply anxious when we first started and she gently brought me back time and time again. I have tears in my eyes remembering this because honestly, I forgot how hard it used to be. Relationship anxiety is a thing of the distant past now. After just two sessions, I felt my heart exploding with love. We then built on that. I now experience a deeply secure relationship with my kind partner and we support and love each other more than ever before.” - Sorina
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