Secure relationships are a skill. A skill that most of us were never taught or modeled.
Just like learning to dance or play an instrument, you have to practice and embody that skill in order for it to feel easy and as natural as breathing.
You also have to challenge the current narratives around relationships. These are the beliefs, perceptions, and subconscious assumptions that you bring into your relationship, like:
“Unless my partner is similar to me, this relationship will fail.”
“My partner will inevitably cheat on me, so I have to stay on guard.”
“Marriage only ends in divorce or being trapped.”
“Unless I’m certain, I can’t commit.”
“My partner should be able to read my mind. I shouldn’t have to say what I need.”
“I have to prove that I’m worthy of love by being perfect.”
Your current narratives about relationships are based on experiences that you’ve had or witnessed in the past, as well as societal conditioning.
This directly impacts how you react in your relationship today.
To trust that it is safe to open your heart in your relationship, you must have new relational experiences.
This program is the training ground for you to practice the skills and have the new experiences that will transform how you respond, how you show up, and how you react in your relationship.
The fastest and most effective way to create new behaviors, beliefs, and emotional reactions in your relationship is through your body.
The body is the record of everything you’ve seen, experienced, and heard about relationships. This is what creates unconscious and automatic reactions of insecurity, fear, and doubt in your loving, safe relationship today.
It’s the feeling of tension in your chest during conflict.
It’s the distracting thoughts during intimacy.
It’s the feeling of restlessness during the mundane moments.
It’s the pull toward chaos when things are going “too well.”
So if you communicate directly to the unconscious through your body, you will literally rewire how you experience relationships.
You will feel secure within.
You will open your heart.
You will feel immense gratitude for your partner.
You will create the most Rock Solid Relationship you’ve ever experienced.
This is what we have been experts in for the last 10 years.